Socialization / Week 6 / Cindy Paskalina Kweesar

Summary

Socialization is one of the important elements of sociology study. To understand it, several theories such as Symbolic Interactionism Internalization Theory and Role Theory are the basic theories that must be studied. Jeffrey Arnett (psychologist) has summarized 3 objectives of socialization, namely, conscience development, preparation of roles and the cultivation of source of meaning. Broadly speaking, socialization is one the way for human to adapt himself in a real social world. Because human socialization is very different depending on their respective cultures, therefore certain socialization should not be forced on anyone.

Socialization is often divided into 2 parts, primary socialization and secondary socialization. Primary socialization occurs during child and adolescent (human core identity will develop). Secondary socialization occurs throughout the life of human and is a continuation of human development when undergoing their own role in society. In addition, socialization is also divided into 2 types, broad and narrow socialization. Broad socialization refers to individualism and independence, and in contrast narrow socialization refers to obedience. Human type of socialization is not only limited to 2 choices, because someone's socialization can be broad as well as narrow (combination).

Socialization is very important, especially at the primary socialization stage. If it is not done properly, then they will be difficult to adapt and function in the community. One example is the case of 'Genie'. She was a child who was victimized by abuse and abandonment. Growing up, she does not have the ability to communicate and socialize with others.

When someone is considered unsuccessful in socializing, one solution is to implement ‘total institutions’. Examples of people who are considered unsuccessful are criminals and mental health patients. They will be included in a ‘room’ (prison, mental hospitals) where the authorities will design a system that forces them to socialize like ordinary people.

What was interesting/what did you learn

In the reading, it was written that a researcher named Victor W. Marshall made a study that wanted to link socialization with death preparation. This research was conducted in retirement residence where an average of 1 death per week. Even so, the community that allows socialization between people who almost have the same conditions has a very high level of death acceptance.

Discussion Point

Does the knowledge of socialization originating from primary socialization determine the success of one's life in society? How much does the family's role shape one's personality?